Tuesday, July 8, 2008


To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance”

-Oscar Wilde

How many times in our life have we felt the need to be loved….the answer is often.. very often… indeed ‘ to love and be loved is the greatest happiness of existence’.

But the more we go out to find love, the more deserted our life becomes. Love often sneaks in through a door you didn’t know you left opened, and the only love worthy to be named is “unconditional”.

In this urban society finding a true love and establishing a lifelong romance seems a shaggy dog story. People ‘fall’ for each other, then just like leaves shed off in autumn they ’split up’ . Going into a deeper thought doesn’t this seem an obscure idea????

You waste so much of your precious time for a person… its not just your time it’s a part of your life that you give to him/her. I ask you a question … why do you put yourself with so much pain?...why?. you are not born to suffer, you are born to be happy and utilize this life that the almighty provided, to spread happiness.

After a so called ‘break up’ with your so called ‘lover’ you are left as a solitary soul in this mean world…and then you ask yourself WHY ME????.. but, be sure no one on this earth can provide you an answer for this…. Because ‘your life is a product of your actions’….

Mark my words there is no need for you to take in so much and feel lonely or aggressive or like a chick in this “mean world”. But then where lies love??.... who should you love blindly??.... the answer is simple….LOVE YOUR SELF…. And it will never let you down.

The more immersed you are into your soul, the more time you spend with yourself, doing all that you love you will see that gradually that every day of yours will start with a smile and every night will end with a laugh. You will be the happiest person on earth. Believe me … its true!...

Love yourself, live your heart,

And soon you will be able to make cakes from tarts.